Articles & Links

Here are my favorite links. It is not a comprehensive list and there are more inclusive lists online which I will link down below.

News & Articles

Origin story: the truth behind an international adoption by NHK World (Japanese news station, similar to BBC) of Meilan Stuy's story. 2021 

Always Curious, But Never Searching... Written by reunited adoptee, Anna, who thought she was abandoned but was actually taken by authorities. 2021


She thought she was abandoned in China 20 years ago. Then her birth parents found her. Zoe's story of finding birthfamily, 2019

In connecting Chinese adoptees to birth families, couple makes discovery about China's one-child policy by NBC about Brian and Longlan Stuy regarding Chinese adoption. Read this, if you read nothing else, to inform yourself about Chinese Adoption. You were not unwanted. 2020

Independent Lens: THIS COUPLE FINDS ANSWERS FOR ADOPTED DAUGHTERS FROM CHINA A wonderful article by Independent Lens on the Stuys and One Child Nation. A quote is: "[We can] show them through the documentary, no, you were not abandoned at the side of the road or left alone unprotected by your birth family. Almost always you were transferred from a person to a person who then brought you to an orphanage, under constant supervision and protection. I think that is a revelation to many adoptees." 2020

Jenna Cook: The adopted girl claimed by 50 birth families 
Article written by BBC of Jenna Cook, Chinese adoptee, then a Yale undergraduate as she tries to find her birthparents in China and meets many other birth families trying to find their daughter and hoping she is theirs. 2017

Lan writes from her own perspective growing up in China with multiple sisters on how the policy affected them. The exceptions (wealthy/well-connected) and how in just one generation, the country went from "More children, more happiness" to "DINK, double income no kids" with many people content with fewer children. 2015

SupChina 2020: ‘We have never abandoned you’: A Chinese family’s search for their daughter
Details the plight of one birthfamily in particular and the subsequent reunion with the adoptee about 20 years later. The introduction is a good place to start.

What Longer Documentaries/Movies Adoptees Watch

The truth is complicated. Older documentaries reflect the knowledge we had at the time.
  1. One Child Nation (2019 About China's One Child Policy) Free with Amazon Prime
  2. Meet Me on the Bridge (2017, Chinese adoptee) FREE on YouTube
  3. Somewhere Between (2011, Chinese adoptees) Rent from Amazon $4
  4. The Day I Gave Up My Daughter, (2023, Chinese adoptee) watch FREE on NHK WORLD online

Other Adoptee Link Lists

China's Children International: Blogs & Organizations (CCI Links to other adoptee media, many, but not all are from Chinese adoptees. Some blogs are deleted. While it would be unrealistic to expect to agree on everything, I think it's worthwhile to read other perspectives. Red Thread Broken and LFS Musings are prime examples.)

Red Thread Broken: Recommended Links (Links to other links)

Blogs/Links to Pages

How To Be Adopted Blog by Claire, a UK-domestic adoptee (Post I really love about not prefacing your right to life with "gratitude" I'm not grateful to my parents for adopting me)

Claire kindly allowed me to guest post on her blog: Guest Post by Yuna Silverstein: Searching for Truth

I Can't Use Chopsticks Blog by Libby, Chinese adoptee, who found her birthfamily through DNAConnect

China's Controversy Blog by Kira, a Canada-based Chinese adoptee

Our China Stories A collection of interviews and autobiographies of different contributing Chinese adoptees and their families

Thoughts of a Chinese Adoptee Blog by Megan Weitzner, a USA-based Chinese adoptee

Aliens in the USA Blog by Simeng Dai, a "Hidden Daughter" who is now living in the USA. We really don't talk about those Chinese hidden daughters whose parents were only able to keep them from the one-child policy by hiding them. At great emotional cost. Her post about encountering the Chinese adoptee community in the USA. And her letter to herself about her past.


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